Top Ten Sexy Traits

Posted: February 12th, 2010 | Author: admin | Filed under: Uncategorized | No Comments »

Whether you are enjoying the initial attraction or years of connection, there are certain traits in a mate that are absolutely irresistible. No, this is not about who has the biggest six-pack or the nicest car. They are the qualities that make you not only desirable, but also irreplaceable. You will find your partner missing you when you are gone, bragging about you to friends, and wondering what good fortune led him/her to such a great catch.

Drive

Rather than sitting back and seeing what life will provide, people with drive claim their lives. These are the knights that face dragons rather than ignore them. They see what they want and recognize their role in making it happen. Time is fluid- they focus on the future by learning from the past and seeing what can be done with the present. Such people are intoxicating for others because seeing such passion for life provokes others to see their own potentials. Nothing is sexier than hope!

 

Honesty

Eliminating hidden agendas, omitted details, and secrets creates emotional safety. There is no unnerving feeling that something is off. There is no need to assume the suspicious role of a detective. With integrity and trustworthiness, comes comfortable rest.

 

Self Control

This is really another word for the ability to choose. When something else is driving behavior (i.e., addiction, impulsivity, and hormones), there are no guarantees so there are no reliable commitments. When someone wants it all and cannot say “no” to himself/herself, they risk losing what he/she already has.

 

Be Appealing

A partner may be able to offer unconditional love, but whether or not there is attraction (especially enduring) is dependent upon the level of appeal. Consider how you want to present yourself to the person you hope will hunger for you. If you take care of yourself, have good manners, and promote positive qualities, you maximize what you are able to offer. If you have stinky feet, belch, and talk about how ugly you are, that is a lot for your partner to overlook.

 

Want to learn more? Join me on February 16th at 6 p.m. to hear six other ways you can keep romance and passion alive. To register for this free event, call 303.915-5597.

---